It's one of those things, even though you know it's coming, you don't really think about it until it slaps you in the face and you realise just how much work there is to do - and basically you're it.
The thing is, the two of us have always been on the same page with our belief that life is too short and that you have to seize every opportunity with two hands, despite the fact that it might scare the absolute beejeezus out of you.
You have to do things even if they scare you stupid. You know - feel the fear and do it anyway. It may go absolutely belly up, but better to have done it and learnt from it, than to not do it and spend the rest of your life wondering and regretting not doing it.
My boss is only 16 days older than me and he always says the things that happen for him are only 16 days away for me, including illnesses, shitty days and happy days. I think I'll pass on any of the BIG life changes that he's contemplating, but when opportunity comes my way in 16 days I'll be sure and have the welcome mat out and the door ajar so that I don't miss it.
Sometimes we all need a shake up, a chance to stir up the status quo and create our own 'scary' moments so that we don't get stuck in ruts and following the same routines and patterns every day.
So, if you could make a 'scary' moment happen, what would you do?
My scary moment, I would quit my job tomorrow and take up writing full time. I would also do so while travelling around the world. Probably better in my mind than in reality.
Cheers, Fi
Big week all around. Artists Way is a great book. Try also Painting from the source by Aviva Gold - same same. I have a current one called 'Life is a verb'. All about creativity. The way you write about writing is the same that others feel for their various creative pursuits. I find I am not driven to do any particular one thing, so long as I am using a certain set off creative thinking skills at whatever I am doing.
ReplyDeleteMaverick is a good book you would probably also enjoy - doing things differently it's a true story. DW & I did the writing thing some years ago, it is the basis of Marriage Encounter - starts with an enrichment weekend. Very effective so keep up the good work. What I really want to say is ...can I read your novel?
I've had enough scary moments lately, so I'll settle for routine. I can't wait to see what life is about to bring you, though!
ReplyDeleteKaren, hope everything is okay at home and with the new job. It feels strange not being able to drop by your blog any more and catch up on whats happening
DeleteLOL -- when I read your title I thought.... sometimes, it has to knock you on the side of the head instead of just knocking at the door of opportunity....
ReplyDeletego for it!!
I've had that happen a few times, never turn your back on opportunity huh?
DeleteWow! So where does that leave you? In 16 days are you going to be promoted? Or worse let go? Forced to resign? I am sure you have thought about these. Kinda scary HOWEVER my thought is always one door closes, another opens. With that in mind, if one of the least favorite options happen, keep that in mind. And please make sure you keep us up to speed. The wheels are set in motion for my *scary* moment. Not sure when it will play out just yet. I started a blog post yesterday about it, not done yet. Similar to yours. Praying for you and that opportunities DO come knocking although I am a firm believer that sometimes YOU have to create your OWN opportunity.
ReplyDeleteYes I'm having a gazillion of those thoughts and lots more. Can't wait to hear what's happening with your 'scary' moment.
DeleteAll we can do is be prepared for the opportunities and not wait for them to come to us. Good luck my friend